Often it is not the person but rather what the person represents that gives us the most amount of distress in love relationships. Attaching too quick or seeming to attach to generally unavailable (unable to meet needs) people is a sign of love addiction along with fighting too hard to hold on or having significant distress at the loss of someone you know you are better off without. Often the response is love avoidance. However, love avoidance can stand-alone and cause a person to not attach to others in a relationship bonding way. Codependency can exist in both. Codependency is not being dependent but rather it is finding your own meaning in life by fixing others, often at the expense of taking care of yourself and many times thinking that if I keep giving the other will eventually give back. We are here to help you break these patterns and create healthy love in your life.